Glee "Never Been Kissed" Rant

Please check out this video that I made in response to the latest episode of Glee!

This had to be said by someone, and I have no problem being that someone!
It really is incredibly annoying seeing how people can love Kurt and then as soon as he "acts out" within his character people flip a shit and are outraged and disgusted!
Think about it!

I Never Win...

Does anybody else always feel like the person who can never win? I seem to always be that person in every single situation and it SUCKS! When things seem to be getting better for me something will happen and I'm suddenly the bad guy and I'm just like "What the hell?!? When did this happen!!!"
That happened just recently. I had like 3 groups of friends coming into visit on the exact same reason, I didn't plan this they just all happened to come into town the same weekend for different reasons and I wanted to see all of them (mind you none of them actually came into town to visit me, that was just an extra on their list of things to do). So I tried my best to balance the visiting between everyone within the times everyone was available. Is it wrong for me to hang out with a certain group of people one night when I know they are busy all the next day and the other person is not busy the next day and I can hang out with them during the day? How does that make me a bad guy?!? I honestly don't follow, but now people are angry with me and I don't think I did anything wrong. Its not like I'm not hanging out with everyone, I'm just trying to get as much time with everyone and divide it fairly, but no it can't just be that simple can it????

So now I have one person angry at me and there isn't anything I can do about it! It sucks and I truly care about this persons friendship and hoped they would understand, but no I get a text message basically cussing me out instead. Oh well! I guess you never out grow the drama from high school, it exists everywhere. Sad face.

Flirting...

Flirting has always been around, its how you show someone you like them...but when did it become the same as being an ass?
I've noticed recently that when people flirt they just act like asses to each other, seems a bit backwards. Its how I've always done it, which isn't helpful, but I feel like if you like someone shouldn't you want to do something nice for them instead of being a bitch and teasing them? Sure bitchiness and teasing are important cause they are all in jest, but when its 100% of the flirting?
If a relationship is started off of the basis of being asshole-y to each other how can it ever be successful and last?
The wierdest thing about it all is that I LOVE being the on recieving the ass-ish treatment because it tells me the person is interested or likes me enough to tease me. Thats so backwards, but yet I still love it. And its the same with my friends, they all love when their significant others are ass-ish to them, but they also love the cute romantic stuff. Why do we need the asshole-y tendencies when the cute romantic ones also get the same idea across?
Even as I'm writing this I'm not sure if I even want to give up being an ass to people I'm interested in, its just how it goes these days. But does that mean that romance is actually dead? If we enjoy the unromanctic stuff just as much as the romanctic stuff why do we need the romantic stuff anymore?

So do we need romance anymore? Or have we become so dependent on the teasing outlook on dating and relationships that we don't need it anymore. Discuss.

- Barksdale <3

The Bieber Nation?

So Justin Bieber has kinda taken over the teen girl world. I don't really see what all the fuss is about. At least when the Jobros were the heart-throbs they weren't like 12, and despite Justin being 15/16 he looks 12, and sings like a 12 year old girl. But regardless of wat age he sounds when he sings, he can sing his ass off. That is the only real appeal I see in his insane following of teen girls, he is a great vocalist and he's only 12...just imagine what he'll sound like after puberty!

One other thing I've noticed about him is that he is a very horny and confused little boy. He says he has a crush on srsly like every female artist; Rihanna and Beyonce specifically. Duh Justin EVERY1 has a crush on those 2, they are amazing. I promise literally every1 has a crush on them, straight men, gay men, straight girls, and lesbians. And when he presented at the Grammy's with Ke$ha the whole time he was thinking "OMFG KE$HA HAS BOOBS UNDER HER DRESS!!!". If you play back his part and look at his face he so is thinking that, plus he messed up and said Beyonce randomly in the middle of his speech.....ummmmm Beyonce is not on stage with you and her name does not belong in ur pre-speech for any award. Plus everytime he is with a female artist he asks for a kiss...horndog.

xoxo. Barksdale.

Best Dressed of Grammys 2010

Best Dressed:

1. Rihanna - Not sure why, I just loved this dress. Rihanna looked great and the dress wasn't too much of anything.

2. Beyonce - She always looks great, no doubt about that. She's classy, we all know this, and she looked incredibly classy and appropriate for the Grammys last night!

3. Melody Thornton - No one really probably knows who Melody is, but I do. She is my favorite Pussycat Doll (well she has been kicked out now with 3 other members) and she is the other one that can sing. Anyways I didn't even know she was going, but I guess she was and she looked GREAT!

4. Lea Michele - This girl can do no wrong in my book! Glee is my favorite show, her voice is practically flawless, she is adorable, and now she dresses like this for the Grammys! I think yes! I love the dress, its diff and young. LOVES IT!

5. Miley Cyrus - Miley gets a bad name for how she dresses, but watev. Miley looked very hot and very age appropriate! Go Miley! I love you, pls give us a new cd and dress like this more often!

xoxo. Barksdale

Ummmm no!

One thing I really really hate is when people who don't take care of themselves walk around like they are the sh*t. Ummmmmm no! If you are gonna go into public you should at least care about maybe brushing ur hair or putting on matching clothes. I understand that some people aren't good at this, but have friends put together clothes for you so you don't look stupid when u leave ur house. Its not like I dress insanely well, but when I leave my room I look put together and I'm not an embarassment to society.So all you people who look disheveled, take a day for yourself and bathe, please, for the sake of all of us!

Also don't ever fart in public! EVER!!!!Thats just disgusting!! A guy did that in class today and then just went on doing watev he wanted and no one said anything, but I know EVERYONE heard it cause it was loud and he even kinda jumped up from all the pressure below his buttox....thats attractive. Just hold it in, once again for the sake of all of us, u won't embarass urself and u also won't alienate urself from ppl. We are in college, u can control urself by now, you should have had plenty of practice......

xoxo. Barksdale

Your Love's A Drug

Here are a couple of my new favorite songs at the moment that I'm absolutely OBSESSED with and cannot stop listening too!

Leighton Meester - Your Love's A Drug

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wgXUFvMzpQ

This is Leighton's 2nd single since "Somebody To Love" didn't do to hot, but I'm so glad she is releasing this song!! Its absolutely amazing!! Its such a fun summery song, I can totally see this being played at like a beach dance party! Its kinda like "Stars Are Blind" by Paris Hilton but with more a club feel. LOVES IT!!

Sugababes - Wear My Kiss

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVGwnEsF5sA

This is the Sugababes 4.0 new single after "Get Sexy" and "About A Girl". I am so loving having Jade in the group! I wasn't so sure at first cause Keisha is amazing, but now that she is gone and Jade is in, I'm in love with them all over again! Something about this song is just epic! It's another just uber fun song and the video is just love!!

JLS - One Shot

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eV_WunW1KR8

JLS came in 2nd on the UK's X Factor after Alexandra Burke (who is absolutely brilliant) and I wasn't a huge fan at first, but this is their 3rd single and easily their best video! I love how it starts out like a slower song and then speeds up and they dance to it! Yay for the UK ur music is eons better than the US...pooey for living in the US.

Def check out these songs!! They r seriously so hot!!

Enjoy :)

- Barksdale

Welcome!

This is my brand new blog and I'm so freaking excited for it!!! That is me in the picture, looking arrogant and bitchy, loves it! Really I just was not aware a picture was being taken, super cute. Basically I'm gonna blog about whatever I want to and have tons of fun with it! Get ready for my current music obsessions, fav tv shows and moments, cool other tidbits about the media, and just watev I am feeling at the moment, I hope you enjoy this blog as much as I will :)

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