I Never Win...

Does anybody else always feel like the person who can never win? I seem to always be that person in every single situation and it SUCKS! When things seem to be getting better for me something will happen and I'm suddenly the bad guy and I'm just like "What the hell?!? When did this happen!!!"
That happened just recently. I had like 3 groups of friends coming into visit on the exact same reason, I didn't plan this they just all happened to come into town the same weekend for different reasons and I wanted to see all of them (mind you none of them actually came into town to visit me, that was just an extra on their list of things to do). So I tried my best to balance the visiting between everyone within the times everyone was available. Is it wrong for me to hang out with a certain group of people one night when I know they are busy all the next day and the other person is not busy the next day and I can hang out with them during the day? How does that make me a bad guy?!? I honestly don't follow, but now people are angry with me and I don't think I did anything wrong. Its not like I'm not hanging out with everyone, I'm just trying to get as much time with everyone and divide it fairly, but no it can't just be that simple can it????

So now I have one person angry at me and there isn't anything I can do about it! It sucks and I truly care about this persons friendship and hoped they would understand, but no I get a text message basically cussing me out instead. Oh well! I guess you never out grow the drama from high school, it exists everywhere. Sad face.